Dad and mom are divorced but share in time with kids. For consistency with them, our nanny goes with kids to each house. Each house has a car for you to drive and the same calendar to follow on kids events. The houses are about 15 minutes or so from each other. Oldest is 16 and has depression/anxiety and gender dysphoria. S/he needs adult influences to help shape the future and stabilize outlook on life. Middle is 13 and has high functioning autism. He needs help with organizing, and understanding human relationships and interactions. He can do school work, but needs motivation to get it done. Youngest has adhd and is most well adjusted of the bunch. He’s the one that will light up the day with his energy and excitement. He loves school, friends, and life. Mom and dad are working, but have high involvement in kids lives. We care very much about our children and the care they have. We believe it takes a village to raise kids and realize we can’t do everything on our own. We need loving, caring support and help for us and kids. Someone who understands autism would be helpful and someone who is comfortable with gender change.