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How much does a live-in nanny cost in Tulsa, OK in 2026?
In Tulsa, OK, the average live-in nanny earns about $13.75 per hour. For a typical 40-hour week, that works out to roughly $550/week or $2,383/month. Most Tulsa families pay somewhere in the $7–$21/hour range, depending on experience, the number of kids, and what's expected on the job.
These numbers come from 162 live live-in nanny listings in Tulsa on Nanny Lane. We update this page whenever the data moves.
- Weekly
(40 hrs) - $550
- Monthly
- $2,383
- Annual
- $28,600
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What drives the price
Most Tulsa families pay somewhere in the $7–$21/hour range. Where a given family lands depends on a handful of factors. Three of them drive most of the spread.
Experience
Number of kids
| 1 kid (baseline) | $13.75 |
|---|---|
| 2 kids | ~$14.75 |
| 3+ kids | ~$15.75+ |
Hours & schedule
| Weekday 9–5 (standard) | — |
|---|---|
| Evening/weekend | +$2–4/hr |
| Last-minute | +$3–5/hr |
Also factor in: live-in vs. live-out · household duties beyond childcare · driving · cooking · travel.
Full-time, part-time, and live-in live-in nanny rates
| Arrangement | Typical hours | Average rate | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Full-time | 35–50 hrs/week | $14.61/hr | See full-time rates → |
| Live-in | Set by family | $14.85/hr | See live-in rates → |
Live-in rates are close to live-out here — but the package usually still includes room and board, so the all-in cost can be lower than it appears. The trade-off is space — you'll need a private bedroom and ideally a separate bathroom for the live-in nanny.
How do Tulsa live-in nanny rates compare to state and national averages?
Tulsa runs below the U.S. average for live-in nanny rates — a meaningful budget advantage for families looking here.
Hiring live-in nannies in Tulsa, OK typically costs about 4% more than the Oklahoma average of $13/hour and 18% less than the United States average of $17/hour.
| Area | Average hourly rate | vs. Tulsa, OK |
|---|---|---|
| Tulsa, OK | $14/hr | — |
| Oklahoma | $13/hr | -4% |
| United States | $17/hr | +22% |
Tips to find a great live-in nanny without overpaying
- Be flexible on experience. Some of the best live-in nannies on the platform have 3–5 years on the job and charge meaningfully less than experienced live-in nannies with 10+ years. References matter more than years.
- Consider a share. If your kids are similar ages and you live near another family, a share is the single biggest cost reduction available without compromising on care.
- Be specific about hours upfront. Most live-in nannies will take a slightly lower rate for a guaranteed steady schedule than for a higher-rate, unpredictable one.
- Bundle benefits thoughtfully. Two weeks PTO, a health stipend, transit passes, education assistance, or an annual raise commitment can help close the gap with families offering a higher hourly rate.
- Match rate to responsibilities. A higher rate often makes sense once you add cooking, errands, or driving. Don't compare apples to oranges across listings.
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How families use Nanny Lane to find a live-in nanny in Tulsa, OK
Nanny Lane is a marketplace built specifically for connecting families with live-in nannies — no recruiters in the middle. Most families work through it like this:
- 01
Browse live-in nanny profiles in Tulsa, OK
Filter by hourly rate, experience, languages, and availability.
- 02
Message the ones who look like a fit
Reach out to the live-in nannies whose experience and rate match what you're looking for.
- 03
Schedule a phone call, then a paid trial day
Trial days feel awkward at first — that's normal. They're the best way to see how a live-in nanny fits with your family in real time.
- 04
Hire your live-in nanny
If you'd rather not handle taxes and payroll yourself, our payroll team can take care of it.
Available live-in nannies in Tulsa, OK
162 active listings in Tulsa
