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How much does a live-in nanny cost in Norfolk, VA in 2026?

In Norfolk, VA, the average live-in nanny earns about $15.36 per hour. For a typical 40-hour week, that works out to roughly $614/week or $2,662/month. Most Norfolk families pay somewhere in the $12–$21/hour range, depending on experience, the number of kids, and what's expected on the job.

Average hourly rate$15.36/hr · Norfolk average

These numbers come from 110 live live-in nanny listings in Norfolk on Nanny Lane. We update this page whenever the data moves.

$614
$2,662
$31,949

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What drives the price

Most Norfolk families pay somewhere in the $12–$21/hour range. Where a given family lands depends on a handful of factors. Three of them drive most of the spread.


01

Experience

Experience is one of the biggest levers on a live-in nanny's rate.
Nannies with 10+ years, or specialty skills like newborn care or multiple languages, typically command the highest hourly rates.

02

Number of kids

One child is the baseline. Each additional child usually adds $1–$2/hour. Twins and infants tend toward the high end.
+$1 to $2/hour per additional child
Hourly rate by number of kids
1 kid (baseline)$15.36
2 kids~$16.36
3+ kids~$17.36+

03

Hours & schedule

Standard weekday daytime hours are easiest to staff. Early mornings, evenings, weekends, and last-minute coverage all push rates up.
10–20%premium for off-hours coverage
Hourly rate adjustment by schedule
Weekday 9–5 (standard)
Evening/weekend+$2–4/hr
Last-minute+$3–5/hr

Also factor in: live-in vs. live-out · household duties beyond childcare · driving · cooking · travel.

Full-time, part-time, and live-in live-in nanny rates

ArrangementTypical hoursAverage rate
Full-time35–50 hrs/week$15.76/hr
Live-inSet by family$15.92/hr

Live-in rates are close to live-out here — but the package usually still includes room and board, so the all-in cost can be lower than it appears. The trade-off is space — you'll need a private bedroom and ideally a separate bathroom for the live-in nanny.

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How do Norfolk live-in nanny rates compare to state and national averages?

Norfolk runs below the U.S. average for live-in nanny rates — a meaningful budget advantage for families looking here.

Hiring live-in nannies in Norfolk, VA typically costs about 10% less than the Virginia average of $17/hour and 9% less than the United States average of $17/hour.

Average hourly live-in nannies rates compared across Norfolk, VA and reference areas.
AreaAverage hourly ratevs. Norfolk, VA
Norfolk, VA$15/hr
Virginia$17/hr+11%
United States$17/hr+10%

Where Norfolk, VA fits among nearby cities

The most expensive city for live-in nannies near Norfolk, VA is Mc Lean at $20.67/hour; the least expensive is Hampton at $14.73/hour.

Below are the 10 most and 10 least expensive cities near Norfolk, VA and how each compares to Norfolk, VA's average of $15.36/hour.

Most expensive cities near Norfolk, VA

Top 10 most expensive cities near Norfolk, VA for hiring a live-in nanny, ranked by average hourly rate.
#City$/hrvs. Norfolk, VA
1Mc Lean$20.67+35%
2Vienna$19.41+26%
3Arlington$19.39+26%
4Leesburg$19.05+24%
5Falls Church$18.62+21%
6Charlottesville$18.38+20%
7Annandale$18.33+19%
8Herndon$18.24+19%
9Fairfax$17.94+17%
10Alexandria$17.78+16%

Least expensive cities near Norfolk, VA

Top 10 least expensive cities near Norfolk, VA for hiring a live-in nanny, ranked by average hourly rate.
#City$/hrvs. Norfolk, VA
1Hampton$14.73-4%
2Lynchburg$14.74-4%
NorfolkThis city$14.86-3%
4Roanoke$14.88-3%
5Chesapeake$14.98-2%
6Newport News$15.09-2%
7Portsmouth$15.14-1%
8Fredericksburg$15.30
9Winchester$15.33
10Williamsburg$15.52+1%

Tips to find a great live-in nanny without overpaying

  • Be flexible on experience. Some of the best live-in nannies on the platform have 3–5 years on the job and charge meaningfully less than experienced live-in nannies with 10+ years. References matter more than years.
  • Consider a share. If your kids are similar ages and you live near another family, a share is the single biggest cost reduction available without compromising on care.
  • Be specific about hours upfront. Most live-in nannies will take a slightly lower rate for a guaranteed steady schedule than for a higher-rate, unpredictable one.
  • Bundle benefits thoughtfully. Two weeks PTO, a health stipend, transit passes, education assistance, or an annual raise commitment can help close the gap with families offering a higher hourly rate.
  • Match rate to responsibilities. A higher rate often makes sense once you add cooking, errands, or driving. Don't compare apples to oranges across listings.

How to reduce nanny costs?

Split the cost of a nanny with another family
and enjoy flexible child care.
Learn more about nanny sharing

How families use Nanny Lane to find a live-in nanny in Norfolk, VA

Nanny Lane is a marketplace built specifically for connecting families with live-in nannies — no recruiters in the middle. Most families work through it like this:

  1. 01

    Browse live-in nanny profiles in Norfolk, VA

    Filter by hourly rate, experience, languages, and availability.

  2. 02

    Message the ones who look like a fit

    Reach out to the live-in nannies whose experience and rate match what you're looking for.

  3. 03

    Schedule a phone call, then a paid trial day

    Trial days feel awkward at first — that's normal. They're the best way to see how a live-in nanny fits with your family in real time.

  4. 04

    Hire your live-in nanny

    If you'd rather not handle taxes and payroll yourself, our payroll team can take care of it.

Available live-in nannies in Norfolk, VA

110 active listings in Norfolk

Karrington C. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Karrington

Norfolk, VA
$16/hr
Part-time
< 1 year experience

A little bit about me

Hi! My name is Karrington Caldwell. I attend Odu so Im looking for something part time so I can afford rent. I love working with children and in fact after I graduate I want to go to EVMS to become a pediatrician. I have 2 brothers and In the oldest. One of my brothers is autistic so he needs a lot more attention. I have two dogs. I love doing fun activities such as coloring and going outside on walks and just being outside.

Have experience working with

Special Needs
Mercedez R. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Mercedez

Norfolk, VA
$15.82/hr
Part-time
10+ years experience

A little bit about me

Hello I am 20 years old born april 10 2005 . I graduated high school June 7 2024 where I received my cpr accreditation. I am the middle child of my mother's 5 children. I have been babysitting since I was 10. My mom had my little brother who is now 10 . At the time my mother was sick I learned to cook and clean . I want to go back to school eventually so I was hoping to save up a bit .

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs

Certification

CPR
Shanquika D. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Shanquika

Norfolk, VA
$16/hr
Full-time
10+ years experience

A little bit about me

I actually started off substituting for Norfolk public schools so I was in all schools / grade levels BUT I decided to become an paraprofessional and I actually worked with all grades at PB Young Elementary but I stayed in an actual classroom for about 4 years as an preK 4 teacher so yes I do have the experience I do know I have to and need to get certified again for cpr and things but if given the opportunity I would love to take on a role like this and ALSO BABYSITTING

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs
Tejia B. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Tejia

Norfolk, VA
$15/hr
Part-time
2 years experience

A little bit about me

I love kids and animals. I'm a clean and tidy person and have a hobby of cooking good food. I'm very creative, nice, and strong.

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs
Jaylyn M. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Jaylyn

Norfolk, VA
$16/hr
Full-time
3 years experience

A little bit about me

My name is Jaylyn but I prefer to be called Jayy. I’m 19 years old graduated High School I’m Planning to start college some time around Springtime to be a Forensic Psychologist!! I absolutely adore and love kids, working with them, and helping them I just admire it, being I have 8 siblings 2 nephews and 4 Autistic Cousins I grew up helping out and caring for kids. As a Women who is big on loving and protecting children I know that I’m reliable and a great fit to be your nanny!!! Thank you in advance and I hope you/and or your family chooses me to care for your children as they are in great hands with me!!
Sincerely ~ Jaylyn

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid
Francine D. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Francine

Norfolk, VA
$16/hr
Part-time
6 years experience

A little bit about me

Hello! My name is Francine, and I am 25 years old I am a fur mommy. I am known for being kind, empathetic, and funny. My experience in childcare spans various settings, including babysitting for family members, friends, and my church community, covering ages from newborns to teenagers. Most notably, I have worked as a teacher at a childcare and learning center, focusing on children aged 0-8. In addition to my passion for working with children, I am currently enrolling in an EMT Academy to further expand my skills and career opportunities.

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid
Dayziah A. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Dayziah

Norfolk, VA
$15/hr
Full-time
2 years experience

A little bit about me

Hi there ! My name is Dayziah, I'm 18 years old, and I'm currently looking for full time live in nanny position. I do not have my license however I'm willing to do light housekeeping, cook, and help out in as many ways as I can.

Have experience working with

Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid
Gg F. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny Gg

Norfolk, VA
$17 - $20/hr
Full-time
4 years experience

A little bit about me

I have been traveling the world since 2017, having children as My translator in every country has really inspired My entire life. Children have been My greatest teachers. I am a published childrens book author and currently writing a second series of books. I find children to have the most genuine presence and Love than any other Being on this planet..
After utilizing this app and working for four different families with wonderful success, (I am open to share for reference) I ended up pregnant and We had a little girl last September. Now It’s Her and I home together and We would love to have a friend to spend time with Us!!

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid
TyAsh'ia J. - Seeking Work in Norfolk

Nanny TyAsh'ia

Norfolk, VA
$15.20/hr
Full-time
3 years experience

A little bit about me

Hi, my name is TyAsh'ia Johnson I love kids and pets and I am 16 years old but I can really help out my family say I'm good but i think this would really help me get that extra push for CE (Child Education) if you find my offer that would be great and Thank You and I think kids are so beautiful and smart and passionate and I love how they light up about their imaginative ways of being a kid

Have experience working with

Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid
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