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How much does a nanny cost in Wilmington, DE in 2026?
In Wilmington, DE, the average nanny earns about $17.68 per hour. For a typical 40-hour week, that works out to roughly $707/week or $3,065/month. Most Wilmington families pay somewhere in the $15–$25/hour range, depending on experience, the number of kids, and what's expected on the job.
These numbers come from 193 live nanny listings in Wilmington on Nanny Lane. We update this page whenever the data moves.
- Weekly
(40 hrs) - $707
- Monthly
- $3,065
- Annual
- $36,774
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What drives the price
Most Wilmington families pay somewhere in the $15–$25/hour range. Where a given family lands depends on a handful of factors. Three of them drive most of the spread.
Experience
Number of kids
| 1 kid (baseline) | $17.68 |
|---|---|
| 2 kids | ~$18.68 |
| 3+ kids | ~$19.68+ |
Hours & schedule
| Weekday 9–5 (standard) | — |
|---|---|
| Evening/weekend | +$2–4/hr |
| Last-minute | +$3–5/hr |
Also factor in: live-in vs. live-out · household duties beyond childcare · driving · cooking · travel.
Full-time, part-time, and live-in nanny rates
| Arrangement | Typical hours | Average rate | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Full-time | 35–50 hrs/week | $18.69/hr | See full-time rates → |
| Part-time | 10–25 hrs/week | $17.60/hr | See part-time rates → |
| Live-in | Set by family | $17.43/hr | See live-in rates → |
Part-time runs slightly lower per hour than full-time here, which often means strong full-time demand supports higher rates for committed schedules.
Live-in arrangements look cheaper per hour because room and board are part of the package. The trade-off is space — you'll need a private bedroom and ideally a separate bathroom for the nanny.
How do Wilmington nanny rates compare to state and national averages?
Wilmington runs above the U.S. average for nanny rates, in line with most major metros.
Hiring nannies in Wilmington, DE typically costs about 3% more than the Delaware average of $17/hour and 5% more than the United States average of $17/hour.
| Area | Average hourly rate | vs. Wilmington, DE |
|---|---|---|
| Wilmington, DE | $18/hr | — |
| Delaware | $17/hr | -3% |
| United States | $17/hr | -5% |
Where Wilmington, DE fits among nearby cities
10 nearby cities have enough nanny data to compare, with rates ranging from $15.93/hour in Dover to $18.82/hour in Lewes.
Below: how each compares to the Wilmington, DE average of $17.68/hour — Wilmington, DE is highlighted at its true rank.
Nearby cities ranked by nanny rate
| # | City | $/hr | vs. Wilmington, DE | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Lewes | $18.82 | +6% | |
| 2 | Newark | $18.33 | +4% | |
| 3 | Wilmington | $17.68 | — | |
| 4 | Middletown | $17.61 | — | |
| 5 | Bear | $17.46 | -1% | |
| 6 | Millsboro | $17.17 | -3% | |
| 7 | New Castle | $16.76 | -5% | |
| 8 | Leipsic | $16.53 | -7% | |
| 9 | Smyrna | $15.96 | -10% | |
| 10 | Dover | $15.93 | -10% |
Tips to find a great nanny without overpaying
- Be flexible on experience. Some of the best nannies on the platform have 3–5 years on the job and charge meaningfully less than experienced nannies with 10+ years. References matter more than years.
- Consider a share. If your kids are similar ages and you live near another family, a share is the single biggest cost reduction available without compromising on care.
- Be specific about hours upfront. Most nannies will take a slightly lower rate for a guaranteed steady schedule than for a higher-rate, unpredictable one.
- Bundle benefits thoughtfully. Two weeks PTO, a health stipend, transit passes, education assistance, or an annual raise commitment can help close the gap with families offering a higher hourly rate.
- Match rate to responsibilities. A higher rate often makes sense once you add cooking, errands, or driving. Don't compare apples to oranges across listings.
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How families use Nanny Lane to find a nanny in Wilmington, DE
Nanny Lane is a marketplace built specifically for connecting families with nannies — no recruiters in the middle. Most families work through it like this:
- 01
Browse nanny profiles in Wilmington, DE
Filter by hourly rate, experience, languages, and availability.
- 02
Message the ones who look like a fit
Reach out to the nannies whose experience and rate match what you're looking for.
- 03
Schedule a phone call, then a paid trial day
Trial days feel awkward at first — that's normal. They're the best way to see how a nanny fits with your family in real time.
- 04
Hire your nanny
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Available nannies in Wilmington, DE
193 active listings in Wilmington
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