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How much does a nanny cost in Wilmington, DE in 2026?

In Wilmington, DE, the average nanny earns about $17.68 per hour. For a typical 40-hour week, that works out to roughly $707/week or $3,065/month. Most Wilmington families pay somewhere in the $15–$25/hour range, depending on experience, the number of kids, and what's expected on the job.

Average hourly rate$17.68/hr · Wilmington average

These numbers come from 193 live nanny listings in Wilmington on Nanny Lane. We update this page whenever the data moves.

$707
$3,065
$36,774

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What drives the price

Most Wilmington families pay somewhere in the $15–$25/hour range. Where a given family lands depends on a handful of factors. Three of them drive most of the spread.


01

Experience

More experienced nannys command higher rates. Entry-level (0-2 yrs) average $16.91/hour, while the most experienced (6-10 yrs) charge around $20.37/hour.
Avg hourly rate by years of experience

02

Number of kids

One child is the baseline. Each additional child usually adds $1–$2/hour. Twins and infants tend toward the high end.
+$1 to $2/hour per additional child
Hourly rate by number of kids
1 kid (baseline)$17.68
2 kids~$18.68
3+ kids~$19.68+

03

Hours & schedule

Standard weekday daytime hours are easiest to staff. Early mornings, evenings, weekends, and last-minute coverage all push rates up.
10–20%premium for off-hours coverage
Hourly rate adjustment by schedule
Weekday 9–5 (standard)
Evening/weekend+$2–4/hr
Last-minute+$3–5/hr

Also factor in: live-in vs. live-out · household duties beyond childcare · driving · cooking · travel.

Full-time, part-time, and live-in nanny rates

ArrangementTypical hoursAverage rate
Full-time35–50 hrs/week$18.69/hr
Part-time10–25 hrs/week$17.60/hr
Live-inSet by family$17.43/hr

Part-time runs slightly lower per hour than full-time here, which often means strong full-time demand supports higher rates for committed schedules.

Live-in arrangements look cheaper per hour because room and board are part of the package. The trade-off is space — you'll need a private bedroom and ideally a separate bathroom for the nanny.

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How do Wilmington nanny rates compare to state and national averages?

Wilmington runs above the U.S. average for nanny rates, in line with most major metros.

Hiring nannies in Wilmington, DE typically costs about 3% more than the Delaware average of $17/hour and 5% more than the United States average of $17/hour.

Average hourly nannies rates compared across Wilmington, DE and reference areas.
AreaAverage hourly ratevs. Wilmington, DE
Wilmington, DE$18/hr
Delaware$17/hr-3%
United States$17/hr-5%

Where Wilmington, DE fits among nearby cities

10 nearby cities have enough nanny data to compare, with rates ranging from $15.93/hour in Dover to $18.82/hour in Lewes.

Below: how each compares to the Wilmington, DE average of $17.68/hour — Wilmington, DE is highlighted at its true rank.

Nearby cities ranked by nanny rate

10 cities near Wilmington, DE ranked by average hourly nanny rate, most to least expensive.
#City$/hrvs. Wilmington, DE
1Lewes$18.82+6%
2Newark$18.33+4%
Wilmington$17.68
4Middletown$17.61
5Bear$17.46-1%
6Millsboro$17.17-3%
7New Castle$16.76-5%
8Leipsic$16.53-7%
9Smyrna$15.96-10%
10Dover$15.93-10%
Most expensive nearby: Lewes ($18.82) Least expensive nearby: Dover ($15.93)

Tips to find a great nanny without overpaying

  • Be flexible on experience. Some of the best nannies on the platform have 3–5 years on the job and charge meaningfully less than experienced nannies with 10+ years. References matter more than years.
  • Consider a share. If your kids are similar ages and you live near another family, a share is the single biggest cost reduction available without compromising on care.
  • Be specific about hours upfront. Most nannies will take a slightly lower rate for a guaranteed steady schedule than for a higher-rate, unpredictable one.
  • Bundle benefits thoughtfully. Two weeks PTO, a health stipend, transit passes, education assistance, or an annual raise commitment can help close the gap with families offering a higher hourly rate.
  • Match rate to responsibilities. A higher rate often makes sense once you add cooking, errands, or driving. Don't compare apples to oranges across listings.

How to reduce nanny costs?

Split the cost of a nanny with another family
and enjoy flexible child care.
Learn more about nanny sharing

How families use Nanny Lane to find a nanny in Wilmington, DE

Nanny Lane is a marketplace built specifically for connecting families with nannies — no recruiters in the middle. Most families work through it like this:

  1. 01

    Browse nanny profiles in Wilmington, DE

    Filter by hourly rate, experience, languages, and availability.

  2. 02

    Message the ones who look like a fit

    Reach out to the nannies whose experience and rate match what you're looking for.

  3. 03

    Schedule a phone call, then a paid trial day

    Trial days feel awkward at first — that's normal. They're the best way to see how a nanny fits with your family in real time.

  4. 04

    Hire your nanny

    If you'd rather not handle taxes and payroll yourself, our payroll team can take care of it.

Available nannies in Wilmington, DE

193 active listings in Wilmington

Johnnasha C. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Johnnasha

Wilmington, DE
$18.58/hr
Part-time
< 1 year experience

A little bit about me

My name is Johnnasha i went to school for early childhood and work with the preschool kids at my high school

Have experience working with

Special Needs

Certification

CPR
Serenity M. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Serenity

Wilmington, DE
$17/hr
Full-time
3 years experience

A little bit about me

Hello, I’m Serenity! I’ve always worked around kids with being an older child in my family I learned to cook and clean early with also gaining a mother instinct for my nieces and nephews.

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs
Sonja M. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Sonja

Wilmington, DE
$18/hr
Part-time
10+ years experience

A little bit about me

I am a retired school teacher (K-12 & special education). I was a business teacher for Middle School. I’m a medical assistant training, mother of 3 grown children ages 30, 26 & 23. Former senior caregiver. I was a senior caregiver, for 13 yrs for my grandmother, who suffered from Alzheimer’s. I ran my own daycare called Small Blessings (newborn to school age). I also have my Medical Assistant degree, so I know how to provide first aide. I’m a grandma of a handsome grandson age 3.
I’m awesome with pets. I love the kids & seniors.♥️😊

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs
Edith G. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Edith

Wilmington, DE
$17/hr
Part-time
< 1 year experience

A little bit about me

I have 8 years of experience with kids, mostly because of my little siblings. I’m good with kids and I can cook a little; I’m not talkative when it comes to talking to people in person.
Maria N. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Maria

Wilmington, DE
$17.23/hr
Full-time
5 years experience

A little bit about me

Hi, I’m Maria! I’m passionate about working with kids and currently studying to become a pediatric nurse. I’m known for being kind, funny, and always on time. I love helping others and often volunteer in my community. Caring for others is truly what I enjoy most!

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid

Recent reference

"I am pleased to recommend Maria Nunez as a nanny/babysitter. During her time with us she proved to be reliable, kind, and attentive. Maria consistently created a safe and nurturing environment, managed routines with ease, and supported our child’s development through engaging activities"
- Nicole
Dineen A. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Dineen

Wilmington, DE
$17.20/hr
Full-time
3 years experience

A little bit about me

In the bustling world we live in, finding a trustworthy and nurturing caregiver for your children is paramount. As someone who has dedicated years to understanding and supporting the growth of young minds, I am excited to introduce myself as a nanny who prioritizes safety, education, and emotional well-being. Choosing the right nanny is a significant decision, and I am committed to being a positive influence in your children’s lives. With my experience, dedication, and nurturing spirit, I am confident in my ability to provide exceptional care. I look forward to the opportunity to contribute to your family’s happiness and well-being, creating lasting memories and supporting your children’s journey as they grow and thrive.

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs
Brian N. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Brian

Wilmington, DE
$17.23/hr
Part-time
2 years experience

A little bit about me

I am currently a college student and I have always like being around kids and being a good influence to them.

Have experience working with

Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid
Erica G. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Erica

Wilmington, DE
$18/hr
Full-time
< 1 year experience

A little bit about me

Hi, my name is Erica, I’m a mother of 2. I love children and will treat your children like they are mine. I have open availability. My son has autism so I do have experience in that.

Have experience working with

Special Needs

Certification

CPR
Atiyya W. - Seeking Work in Wilmington

Nanny Atiyya

Wilmington, DE
$18/hr
Part-time
10+ years experience

A little bit about me

My name is atiyya i love kids, I have ALOT of neices and nephews. Kids warm my heart, I like to teach and learn from the kids. I like to have fun they won’t be bored. Your kid won’t want to leave🥰☺️

Have experience working with

Infants
Special Needs

Certifications

CPR
First Aid
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